Tuesday Apr 15, 2025

Your Ceremony Is Boring—Here’s How to Fix It!

Welcome back to The Pre Nup, the wedding-obsessed podcast designed to help you plan your dream day—and prepare for whatever comes after! I’m your host, Adriana, and each week I sit down with top pros, influencers, and real couples who are keeping it honest about love, marriage, and everything in between.

This week, we’re diving into the most overlooked (but arguably most important!) part of the wedding: the ceremony. 💍 Joining me is returning guest Tanya Pushkine, aka The Vow Whisperer—a world-traveling officiant, ceremony coach, and all-around genius when it comes to making your “I dos” unforgettable.

From cringe-worthy officiant fails to heartfelt vow delivery tips, Tanya breaks down exactly how to craft a ceremony that’s personal, powerful, and—yes—even suspenseful. Whether you’re writing your vows, coaching a friend to officiate, or just trying to avoid a snoozefest at the altar, this episode is a must-listen.

Episode Highlights:

• Why your ceremony sets the tone for the entire day
• Tips for writing AND delivering vows that don’t sound like a high school speech
• Coaching your BFF to officiate (without disaster!)
• The craziest “no-show groom” story you’ve ever heard
• Tanya’s go-to breathing exercise to calm pre-ceremony nerves
• How to honor multiple cultures without it feeling forced

If you want your wedding ceremony to feel like you, and not like a copy-paste of every wedding you’ve ever sat through, Tanya’s here to show you how. 
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